I am home and it feels good to be home~
So shall we start with how my day went yesterday :)
Basically I got up and got myself sorted
had a shower and put on more makeup than I usually wear
as I wanted it to hold for the whole day and I wanted to make the effort
not that more is better but I did want to try
I had some lunch before I left and drank a brew outside with Oz
I made sure to give him plenty of fuss before I left
I picked Adam up who was already for me
and we were off on my hour jounrey
to be fair I handled everything well and was so pleased with myself
for writing notes as my satnav clearly hasnt been updated for a while
as we were driving what looked like through fields on my satnav screen XD
but we have new roads now leading out of nottingham
i never leave nottingham in my car tho XD
I did all the major roads fine it was finding where we were staying that took up time
honestly couldnt find it and we were a bit distrusting of the satnav
we got there tho and had some time in the hotel before we had to set off
so we both got in our finery and headed to the christ
I could see people outside the church and stuff and we were on time
i mean the ceremony was good i wont diss it but it wasnt to my taste
very song heavy with christian songs that went on and on
they were repetitive and all about the same thing. god.
there was prayers too which again isnt my thing
i was aching a lot sitting there for so long but it gave me stuff to think about
such as
how lovely Joy looked in her wedding dress it was a beautiful dress it truly was
antony looked amazing bless him and nervous
how much effort goes into organising all this
how damn scary it is to get married
i said to adam "if i get married im doing it online, less scary and im sure someone out there will print me a certificate" he laughed and said "you'll be married soon" hmm didnt like where that topic was going so i changed the subject XD
after we could leave the church we headed to the reception (after party) and that was lovely and more my thing, it was in a marquee outdoors with loads of tables a dance floor and just one poxy heater for the entire marquee...
we were one of the first to arrive and seeing as it was in a forest I went and scouted the area out leaving adam, as i do love being in the woods. would have been tonnes better if i wasnt confined in boots and a dress >.>
I came back and people started taking up seats at the tables
we sat down discovered that each seat had a drinks token on their wine glass
i threaded mine through my belt on my dress so i didnt lose it
adam cashed his in shortly but there wasnt anything that i wanted on their menu so i kept hold
of it forgetting about it as i found water and tea~ so i was sorted
we were asked to go up table by table for the hog roast and everyone got a load of meat
i got next to nothing!!!!!! honestly! adam offered some of his meat but i declined knowing he'd only be hungry if i took from him.
there was a message to say we could go get some cake wooooo so adam went and got some of his mum's cake i wasnt bothered what cake i ate as long as i got some damn cake
after cake i went outside to go see the pig or what was left of the pig from the hog roast
i just wanted to see what it looked like
after the food was done and dusted there was the speeches
and that was lovely seeing that and the words that were spoken antony has always been so mature and last night was no exception his best man - lee - got up for a speech
lee was a boy in my primary school class i was always fine with him and he was always very very shy so to see him get up and do a speech was amazing
the music was getting starting and we were told the tables and chairs were gonna be moved to make way for the dance floor. antony came and saw us and i could see he was anxious about if people would get up and actually dance. i told him id dance. he told adam that he'd have to buy everyone a drink if he didnt dance XD
i was frozen. i kept going over to the heater to get my circulation going again
i was really cold and adam offered to fetch his jacket from the car so he went and did that
meanwhile the musicians asked for people - couples - to come onto the dance floor
i wanted to dance but adam had gone to the car. Lee was stood looking a lil lost. He was best man and therefor he HAD to dance not that he wanted to
so I went walking up to him "hey Lee I'll dance with you"
he was really surprised and said "I didnt even recognise you!" And we listened to the instructions and we had ago dancing, I noticed his parents were in front of us and I told them I was from Lee's old school class but I wasnt expecting them to know me as I didnt know them ether
the 3 dances ended and to me I was finished dancing, Id danced and not worn myself out
job done, or so i thought
i went over to my table and saw adam thinking 'hes come in from getting a coat for his girlfriend to find shes dancing with another random guy....doesnt look good'
so I explained about Lee and who he was and adam was fine
I bumped into Lee's mum and she thanked me for dancing with Lee and asked if I would dance again with him...what do you say? So I said it was no problem
Lee's older sister who was in Helina's class came through the door and I recognised her straight away she hadnt changed even tho last time i saw her she was 11 years old. Lee's mum told me to go talk to her but I said she wouldnt know me. I went over to her and introduced myself and said I was in her brother's class at school she at first didnt know me and i said it was a long time then the penny dropped and she said "were you the girl with blond hair, fringe, and a bit of a tom boy!?" i was like "yeah that was me" she said "oh my god youre so different youre so pretty and slim your face is slim and your hair is lovely and youre so pretty i cant believe how different you are" guess i must have been a right dog's dinner in school XD
i had been told through out the night "your dress is pretty" "your look really good" "youre wearing a dress!?" "your hair is a lovely colour" i received a lot of compliments that night a lot from people i didnt even know
the next set of dances got under way and antony's mum was videoing me dancing with lee!!! could have killed her XD but shes a good sport and did it to deliberately annoy me XD
I ended up dancing with a lot of people and it was fun I couldnt stop laughing as the young guys were arsing around which always makes me laugh seeing guys be stupid its like being at school, people had been drinking so kept messing up, i was tired and kept going wrong but it was fun.
after that set of dancing Lee's mum said to me "im sorry i didnt realise you had a fellow over there!"
i said "oh dont worry about him" but i was starting to wonder if adam would be in a mood with me cus i was dancing with other people and Lee of course
I didn't want to dance again but they were getting desperate for dances at this point as it was 10pm and a lot of people had started to leave. So I went up like a good sport
did the dance and I was knackered really really done in so i walked over to adam and said "i need to go home now" and went to say our goodbyes and thank yous to antony and joy
we left and i was mentally and physically drained but very wired and told adam is was gonna take a lot to wind down for the night
i was originally gonna shower when i got back to the hotel but it was 11pm and i was shattered so i got into pajamas and died on the bed but i was suffering big style so when adam had nodded off i was still up by 3am i had taken pain killers. he'd stayed up with me til 1:30am but he was tired also even tho he didnt dance :P
i got about 4 hours sleep
the morning I got up at 8:30am and had a much needed shower
we went for break fast which was good actually i enjoyed it
then we packed up our stuff and left around 10am
we got home quick
my brother passed the first part of his drone licence this weekend which i was pleased for him
i havent done a lot today other than catch up on some sleep and see Oz who'd missed me
and to make a point of showing me how much he's missed me he latched onto my arm with claws and went to mount my arm!! whats up with him!? must be cus its spring and he wants to do what bunnies do best i think. he's got the vets on friday i will ask them to make sure he hasnt grown his man bits back XD
tomorrow it's Millie's 3rd birthday and shes having a birthday bath! cus she is in desperate need of one!! It's also pub quiz with tara and james the last time i see them before they go to america
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